The Women in Jesus' Life
Brian Bill
Matthew 27:55-56
A group of kids were asked to give their answers to some questions about their
moms. Here are two of my favorites:
Q: What does your Mom do in her spare time? A: Mothers don’t
do spare time.
Q: Why did God make mothers?
A: To help us out of there when we were getting born.
One mom was out walking with her 4-year-old daughter when her girl picked
up something from the ground and started to put it in her mouth. The mother
tells what happens in her own words: “I took the item away from her
and I asked her not to do that.” My daughter quickly asked, “Why?” “Because
it’s been lying outside, you don’t know where it’s been,
it’s dirty and probably has germs,” I replied. At this point,
my daughter looked at me with total admiration and asked, “Wow! How
do you know all this stuff?” I thought quickly and said, “Uh…All
moms know this stuff. It’s on the Mommy Test. You have to know it, or
they don’t let you be a Mommy.” We walked along in silence
for 2 or 3 minutes, as she pondered this new information. “Oh...I
get it!” she beamed, “So if you don’t pass the test
you have to be the daddy?” I smiled and replied, “Exactly.”
Bless you moms! You’ve passed the mommy test! Actually, we want to honor
every woman here today. If you’re over 18, would you please stand so
we can celebrate your serving and applaud your impact? I’m hoping you
will be encouraged and affirmed as we look at how important women were, and
are, to Jesus.
Before we get to our topic, allow me to summarize what we’ve learned
so far in our “Cracking the DaVinci Code” series.
· Separating Fact from Fiction. Three weeks ago we discovered
from 1 John 4 that when confronted by confusing teaching we must take
a truth test, keep Christ as key, remember that God is greater, and practice
limitless love.
· Will the Real Jesus Please Stand Up? Two weeks ago we focused
on two key questions about Christ from Matthew 16. First, who do people
say that He is? And second, and most importantly, who do you say that
He is?
· Can You Trust the Bible? We were reminded last week from 2
Timothy 3 that the Bible is God-breathed, it has a good base, it has
great benefit, and it must be grasped and believed.
Related to this, I was encouraged to read the results of a new Zogby poll
that shows, despite sensational reports to the contrary, most Americans are
not buying the theological premises of The Da Vinci Code: “Among those
who have read the book, more than 60% believe that the Bible is closer to the
truth, while only 10% believe Dan Brown’s novel is more truthful…The
most striking result from the survey is that after either reading or hearing
about The Da Vinci Code, 44% of respondents were more likely to seek the truth
by studying the Bible, while only 20% were less likely to study the Bible” (for
more information see my blog entry called “Bible Over Brown,” 5/10/06, www.pontiacbible.org/brian).
That’s what we’ve been doing in this series; we’ve been
studying what the Bible has to say about Brown’s audacious claims. Today
we come to what is perhaps the most scandalous section of The DaVinci Code. Dan
Brown believes that Jesus was married to Mary Magdalene and that they had a
child named Sarah and that their bloodline continues today in France. Incidentally,
I happen to agree with Sandra Miesel’s contention that the DaVinci Code
is “blasphemy delivered in a small voice.” As we’ve
been doing throughout the series, let’s hear from the book itself:
- “The grail is literally the ancient symbol for womanhood, and
the Holy Grail represents the sacred feminine and the goddess, which of
course has now been lost, virtually eliminated by the Church.” (Page
238)
- “And not just any person…A woman who carried with her a
secret so powerful that, if revealed, it threatened to devastate the very
foundation of Christianity.” (Page 239)
- Quoting from the Gospel of Philip, the character Sophie reads this passage: “And
the companion of the Savior is Mary Magdalene. Christ loved her more than
all the others…” [I can’t repeat what is said next
because it makes me recoil inside]. (Page 246)
- “…Jesus was the original feminist. He intended for the
future of His church to be in the hands of Mary Magdalene.” (Page
248)
- “Behold…the greatest cover-up in human history. Not only
was Jesus Christ married, but He was a father…” (Page
249)
- “…Mary Magdalene…her marriage to Jesus Christ…it’s
a matter of historical record…and DaVinci was certainly aware of
that fact. The Last Supper practically shouts at the viewer that Jesus
and Magdalene were a pair.” (Page 244)
I’ve received questions throughout this series and have attempted to
answer at least one during each message. Here’s a question that I’ve
been asked a number of times.
Q: Why did Leonardo DaVinci paint Mary Magdalene into the Last Supper?
A: Here’s my simple answer. He didn’t.
[Put up slide of “Last Supper”] Let me be quick to say that I’m
not an art historian by any means and recognize that I’m out of my expertise
area, but I also want to address this question because Brown’s portrayal
of what is in this painting has really thrown some people.
Marti Sullan, a PBC member who has done extensive study in this area, really
likes this quote from Bruce Boucher of the Art Institute in Chicago: “St.
John was invariably represented as a beautiful young man” (As quoted
in “The DaVinci Code: A Companion Guide to the Movie,” Campus Crusade
for Christ, 2006). Marti also consulted three of her history books this week
about DaVinci and noted that “none mention John in particular. Many
talk about James, and Peter’s portrayal, and Judas, but to the mainstream
art historian, nothing is noteworthy as far as John seeming out of place physically.” Actually,
the focal point in this painting is Jesus and the moment Leonardo is capturing
is the announcement that someone is going to betray Him.
Before Believing Brown
Consider these facts before believing Brown’s book:
· Leonardo wasn’t there for the Last Supper and didn’t
have a picture to work from because he lived almost fifteen centuries after
Christ. That alone should make us pause. Simply put, he painted his perspective;
and that doesn’t make it true. By the way, do you know what Peter said
at the Last Supper? He looked at his buddies and said, “Hey, you better
get on this side of the table if you want to be in the picture!”
· Leonardo had personal and profound issues with the church, and these
showed up in his artwork and his writings.
· We don’t really know what he painted because the original has
greatly faded and what we see now has been restored several times. By the time
of the first restoration project, I’m told that the original was almost
totally unrecognizable.
· With only twelve disciples with Jesus, if one is Mary, then where’s
John? He’s referred to in John 21:7 as the “one whom
Jesus loved.” There’s no way he would have been left out
of this very important meal.
· As I mentioned last week, 60 Minutes and other investigative
teams have debunked the theory that DaVinci was a member of the Priory of Sion.
This makes Brown’s whole premise evaporate and DaVinci could not have
added secret codes in his paintings.
· John is the youngest disciple and therefore was painted as a very
young man, perhaps even as a teenager.
· Sketches of this painting make it clear that the person to the right
of Jesus was John.
· According to art expert Bruce Boucher, Leonardo’s portrait
of John is consistent with depictions of John by other artists in Florence
at that time.
· Perhaps most telling is to look at how Leonardo painted other men
at that time. His last known painting is called “St. John the Baptist.” Notice
how “effeminate” he paints this John. [Put up slide]
Jack Wasserman, retired art professor at Temple University, says that “Just
about everything [Dan Brown] says about Leonardo is wrong” (Quoted
by Erwin Lutzer, “The DaVinci Deception,” page 55).
Was Jesus Married to Mary Magdalene?
Let’s briefly address the audacious assertion by Dan Brown that “the
marriage of Jesus and Mary Magdalene is part of the historical record.”
· It’s silly to argue from silence. Brown believes Jesus
was married because the Bible doesn’t say he wasn’t. It’s
dangerous to extrapolate based on absence of information.
· Most men were married, but not all. Brown suggests that since
most men were married, then Jesus must have been. While that is true, there
was precedent for single men, especially at the community of the Essenes. In
addition, the prophet Jeremiah, John the Baptist, and the Apostle Paul were
single. 1 Corinthians 7:1: “Now for the matters you wrote
about: It is good for a man not to marry.” Keep in mind that
Jesus often did things that were contrary to cultural expectations.
· If Jesus was married, Paul would have said so. In 1 Corinthians
9:5, Paul argues that it’s OK for the apostles to be married and
cites those who had spouses: “Don’t we have the right to
take a believing wife along with us, as do the other apostles and the Lord’s
brothers and Cephas?” Paul most certainly would have referenced
Jesus being married if He had been because it would have bolstered his argument
that marriage is a good thing.
· The Gospels never mention that Jesus had a wife. Whenever
texts mention Jesus’ family, they refer to his mother, brothers and sisters,
but never a wife. Mark 6:3 is a good example: “Isn’t
this the carpenter? Isn’t this Mary’s son and the brother of James,
Joseph, Judas and Simon? Aren’t his sisters here with us?”
· When Jesus is on the cross, he does not give any special attention
to Mary Magdalene. In fact, the only woman He is concerned about is His
mother, directing John to take care of her: “Here is your mother.
From that time on, this disciple took her into his home” (John
19:25-27). If Jesus were married, He would have made arrangements
for His wife to be taken care of as well.
· In lists of the women who traveled with Jesus, it is never stated
that Mary Magdalene was his wife. It would have been natural to say, “Mary,
the wife of…” had she really been married. Many of the other
women are identified by the men in their lives, but Mary is simply referred
to as Mary from Magdala.
· The Gnostic Gospels never specifically say that Jesus was married
either. Brown likes to reference the “Gospel of Phillip” and
the “Gospel of Mary Magdalene,” which incidentally are not gospels
at all and were written a century or more after Christ’s death. I read
the “Gospel of Mary Magdalene” this week and nowhere does it
say that Jesus and Mary were married. It’s important to know that this
manuscript is partial with big chunks missing; specifically sections up to
chapter 4, and portions of chapter 5 to 8. You tell me if we should give
any credence to this concoction when we read Gnostic nonsense like 8:17-18: “I
was not recognized. But I have recognized that the All is being dissolved,
both the earthly things and the heavenly. When the soul had overcome the
third power, it went upwards and saw the fourth power, which took seven forms.”
Scholars point out that the key text Brown uses from the Gospel of Phillip
has a big gap in it so we don’t know exactly what was said. In addition,
Brown claims that the Aramaic word for “companion” literally meant “spouse.” That’s
simply not true because this word appears ten times in the New Testament and
not once does it imply a marital relationship. On top of that, this document
was not even written in Aramaic; it was written in Coptic.
· The vast majority of scholars believe Jesus was single. One
of the few things that most liberal and conservative scholars agree on is that
Jesus was never married.
What Jesus Thought of Women
Pastor Jeff has been working diligently on his ordination paper and recently
finished a section that deals with our topic today. I’d like to quote
from it extensively because I can’t improve upon it. Was Jesus the original
feminist as Brown claims? I wouldn’t use that word but He certainly elevated
women above the cultural and religious parameters present in that day. In fact,
it can be shown that whenever Christianity is introduced into a culture, it
has lifted women up.
When we consider the role of women in the ministry of Jesus, it becomes
apparent that He did not hold to the rabbinical teachings of his day. In
fact, his ministry represents a break in Judaism in regards to the role of
women…Some have called his approach nothing short of revolutionary….Jesus
placed a high value on women and saw them as intrinsically equal to men.
This was without precedent in contemporary Judaism.
We see multiple examples of Jesus interacting with women, confusing the
crowds and even his disciples. He regularly addressed women, something unheard
of for a rabbi. The Samaritan woman (John 4), the woman caught in adultery
(John 8), the widow at Nain (Luke 7:12-13), the woman with a bleeding disorder
(Luke 8:48), and a Gentile woman (Matthew 15:22-28) were all recipients of
His care, compassion, and grace. The parables, Jesus’ favorite way
of teaching, were filled with positive examples of women (see Matthew 13:33;
Luke 18:1-8; Luke 15; and Mark 12:38-44). In fact, Jesus assumes that women
would learn and encourages Martha to be more like Mary, who sat at his feet
to be instructed by Him (Luke 10:38-42). Whereas the rabbis would rather
burn the Law than teach it to a woman, Jesus expected them to learn and apply
the lessons He taught. It is important to note that Jesus also held women
personally responsible for their own sins (John 4; John 8; Luke 7). (Jeff
Williams, unpublished draft of Ordination Paper, May 2006)
The Real Mary Magdalene
Brown is right about one thing; the church for years has been mistaken about
Mary Magdalene. She was not a prostitute. Even the Passion of the Christ portrayed
her incorrectly. Let me suggest a few reasons why our views of Mary Magdalene
get messed up so easily.
· Mary is one of seven different women with this name in the New
Testament. It’s difficult to keep them all straight so it’s
easy to get confused about which Mary was contrary and which Mary was contrite.
· The first notion of Mary as a prostitute comes from a sermon delivered
by Pope Gregory in A.D. 591. While the Catholic Church did not officially
correct this teaching until 1969, Gregory’s sermon did not trash Mary;
instead he held her up as a tribute to the grace of God that transforms lives.
Incidentally, Mary Magdalene is held in high regard by the Catholic Church.
Why would they do this if they had deliberately set out to tarnish her reputation
as Dan Brown suggests?
· The anonymous sinner in Luke 7 was thought to be Mary Magdalene. Many
have made the mistake of thinking the sinner who washed Jesus’ feet with
her hair in the previous chapter was Mary Magdalene. Luke 8 introduces
a totally different scene with different people with the use of this phrase: “After
this…”
Mary Magdalene as a Model
What do we know for sure about this Mary? In short she was a follower and
friend of Jesus. I see six facets to her faith journey that can help each one
of us today. Please turn in your Bibles to Luke 8:1-3: “After
this, Jesus traveled about from one town and village to another, proclaiming
the good news of the kingdom of God. The Twelve were with him, and also some
women who had been cured of evil spirits and diseases: Mary (called Magdalene)
from whom seven demons had come out; Joanna the wife of Cuza, the manager of
Herod’s household; Susanna; and many others. These women were helping
to support them out of their own means.”
1. Chaos. The first thing we learn about Mary is that she was called “Magdalene.” That
wasn’t really her last name; it means she was from an area called Magdala.
We also discover that she had been deeply disturbed by seven demons. The number
seven speaks of completion so we could say that her life was in complete chaos.
While some liberal commentators suggest that this was just a symbol for sickness;
the Bible teaches that demons are real and they can, and do possess people,
even today. Notice how Dr. Luke makes a distinction between those cured of “evil
spirits” and those cured of “diseases.” What we know about
Jesus in Luke 4:18 is that He was sent “to proclaim freedom
for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to release the oppressed.” As
He preached the good news, people were set free.
2. Conversion. We’re not really told how this happened, but we
do know that Mary from Magdala had been magnificently set free. Her life was
now moving away from chaos because she had experienced conversion. If you find
yourself in chaos today and you are troubled spiritually, emotionally or physically,
come to Jesus right now. You don’t have to live the way you’ve
been living any longer. Allow Him to convert you. 2 Corinthians 5:17: “Therefore,
if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has
come!”
3. Community. Once Mary moved from chaos to conversion, she wanted
to spend all the time she could with Jesus and with others who believed in
Him. When Jesus moved to the next town, she went along. Friend, if you want
to grow closer to Christ you must stay in community with Him and with other
Christians. What are you doing to stay close to Him? You cannot grow if you
are out of community with God and with others. Sunday morning involvement in
corporate praise and preaching cannot be optional for the believer. I encourage
you to plug into a small group, join a Bible study, and get involved in the
mentoring program here. You may also want to consider finding an accountability
partner to pray with several times a week.
4. Contributor. Notice that Mary didn’t just hang out with Jesus;
she used what she had to meet His needs. She had been blessed and now she was
determined to be a blessing as the financial needs of the entire group
were provided by these female followers. My guess is that Joanna was able to
give more because her husband was the manager of Herod’s household, but
whatever Mary had she gave to Him. That’s a good principle for all of
us to remember. No one can do everything but everyone can do something. Perhaps
she gave even less than Susanna, but we do know that she was a contributor. Matthew
27:55 says that the women “cared for His needs.” The
women at PBC are just like that today. You give because of the grace you’ve
received. This church is as strong as it is, in large part because of the contributions
of the women here. By the way, we’re looking for more people to serve
on the Hostess Committee. You can contact the church office if you’re
interested.
5. Commitment. Mary and the other women not only contributed cash,
they demonstrated a deep commitment. We know that Mary Magdalene in particular
not only hung out with Jesus, but hung in there with Him when He was crucified.
She figures very prominently in all four gospels. Matthew 27:55-56: “Many
women were there, watching from a distance. They had followed Jesus from Galilee
to care for his needs. Among them were Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James
and Joses, and the mother of Zebedee’s sons.” Not only
that, but she was among the first at the tomb on Easter Sunday morning according
to John 20:1: “Early on the first day of the week, while
it was still dark, Mary Magdalene went to the tomb and saw that the stone had
been removed from the entrance.” According to John 20:15-16,
she was the first person Jesus appeared to after the Resurrection.
The call of Christ requires a commitment to put Jesus first, even above your
family as Matthew 10:37 makes clear: “Anyone who loves his
father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son
or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.”
Mary took the drastic step of leaving her home and her family, along with
the other women and the disciples, in order to share in what the Savior was
calling them to do. And they hung in there.
Some of you are in a tough spot today. Don’t give up. Maybe you wish
you were a mom. Maybe you’re a mom and you wish your kids treated you
better. Maybe you’re flying solo and you’re parenting your kids
on your own. Maybe one of your children has died. Some of you have a hurting
heart for the prodigals in your life as you long for them to return. Stay strong.
Keep believing and stay close to Christ.
6. Communication. Mary not only demonstrated a deep commitment to the
Messiah; she communicated His message as she was sent by Jesus to go and share
the good news in John 20:18: “Mary Magdalene went to the
disciples with the news: ‘I have seen the Lord!’ And she told them
that he had said these things to her.” I get the sense that
she was very enthusiastic about telling others what she saw and experienced.
Moms, keep on communicating the good news of Jesus Christ to your kids, with
excitement and enthusiasm. Keep on talking to your friends, neighbors, co-workers
and family members about what Jesus has done for you. You might even want to
consider opening up your backyard this summer so that our 5-Day-Club team can
share Christ with the children in your neighborhood. It’s been said that
women were the last at the cross, the first at the empty tomb, the first to
see the risen Christ on Eater morning, and the first to share the good news.
Where are you in this process?
· Are you still living with the chaos that comes from being
far from Christ?
· If so, it’s time to be converted so you can be set free.
· After this important step, are you doing everything you can to stay
in community with Christ and with other Christians?
· While its good be in community, it’s imperative that you move
from being a consumer to become a contributor. In what ways can you
start giving of your time, your treasures, and your talents?
· When tough times come, and they will, will you stay committed?
If you’re drifting, it’s time to come back.
· And then, determine to communicate what Christ has done for
you. Do it with enthusiasm and with energy. Who will you talk to this week?
I like how one pastor on our collaboration team summarized the kind of model
Mary Magdalene is for each of us: She gave herself to Christ; then she gave
what she had, and finally she gave voice to what Jesus had given to her. Indeed,
Mary was extraordinary.
Passing the Test
Many of you have passed the “Mommy Test.” I’d like to suggest
another test this morning that we all need to pass. It has two parts to it.
1. A relationship with Jesus is the most important relationship you will
ever have. Your marital status, or whether you’re a mom (or dad),
is not the most important thing about you. You matter to God for who you
are. On this Mother’s Day, remember that you are not defined primarily
by your role in a family but by your relationship to Jesus as His follower.
Jesus redefines what is of ultimate importance in Mark 3:35. The crowd
had singled out Jesus’ natural family, indicating that his mother and
brothers were there. Notice how Jesus redirects this to show that a love
relationship that leads to obedience is more important than any earthly family
ties: “Whoever does God’s will is my brother and sister
and mother.” Question: Are you in His family?
2. This may sound scandalous when you first hear it so get ready…Jesus will
be married someday. Erwin Lutzer puts it this way: “Jesus
is now engaged to us, the church—His bride. He would not have been
married on earth, knowing that His coming marriage is in heaven. On that
day, we, along with Mary Magdalene, will be invited to the marriage supper
of the Lamb…in the most blessed intimate union of fellowship imaginable” (Lutzer, “The
DaVinci Deception,” Page 75). Question: “Are you
ready to say “I do” to Jesus?
Please stand as I read Revelation 19:7-9: “Let us rejoice
and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and
his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given
her to wear. (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of the saints.)
Then the angel said to me, “Write: ‘Blessed are those who are
invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!’” And he added, “These
are the true words of God.”
Only those who accept the invitation will enjoy the feast. Are you ready to
accept His offer so you can move away from chaos, once and for all? And,
as His bride, will you make yourself ready by remaining pure until He comes?
* This is part IV of “Cracking the DaVinci Code” sermon series at Pontiac Bible Church. |